I think theres a difference between picking up on subtle anxieties and issues for this thinking. But theres also other end of the coin, where the worst possibel that can happen in a situation will happen to you often. Thats me. The hardest part is accepting some people just struggle through life more due to no huge fault of their own
All depends of where you were born, there are countries with opportunities and strong economies, and other places in the world where nothing happens. I was born in one of those dark places called Ecuador, where honest hard working people have it hard to succeed, without bribes to the civil servants, or knowing someone in politics… or connections with mafias
No someone or something is out to get me. I refuse to believe everything is my fault. I can not be to blame for all my mistakes. I can not be to blame when everything goes wrong when I did everything I am supposed to do. That’s not things are supposed to work.
I hate this fucking ugly life every time when i want to have fucking fun or fucking relax i allways have financial problems or whit my familly… 6years i didnt go to fucking vecation and i got to stay in this shitty town… I hate this kind of living sick of this shit
I thought this video was more about why some people keep on getting victimized by really bad things like rape, abuse, violence, other crimes, wars, natural disasters and so on. Not things like missing a train.
Childhood abuse trauma is at the heart of all the bs going on in my unwanted existence! N while that "lot" laugh at me they get the best of wot they STOLE from me
First and foremost, lets get one thing straight, luck is real. It's not trauma. It's not your perspective. Sometimes you're just dealt a very unlucky hand. But do you think you'll luckier if you just stop trying? Bad luck like poverty charges interest. You're already in the deep end, you stop trying, you'll end up in the abyss.
Complete nonsese i love myself and I am nice to everyone and still have one bad thing after another happen to me. I even try as hard as possible and just get set back by one thing after another. Makes no sense at all.
Yeah, kinda accepted that even if I try to be positive other people are going to shit on me and I have no control over that, it's to the point where I don't leave the house unless i need to shop, I avoid other people because I can't seem to do anything right or keep up. I work and I get illegally underpaid and leave, or treated like a piece of shit, put up with it and try and then get fired anyway, and to top the whole lot off I am alone all the damn time.
It's hard to leave behind victim mentality and self-hatred when the world shits on you constantly and leaves you a victim and the only reason you can see is you're a shithouse person that nobody likes and has no inherent worth. It's not like I feel like everything is going wrong, it's that *everything is going wrong*, I'm not annoyed by the little things, shit happens and I can't change those, But when I'm consistantly treated badly by my employers, my peers, and nothing ever seems to get better it's really fucking hard to stop being a 'victim' because you literally are a victim of other peoples shitty morals. It's hard to not hate oneself because the only reason it could keepo on happening so constantly is because I'm a terrible person and I deserve nothing.
Does any of this actually hit home, or is this 'victim mentality'? Because i've dealt with over a decade of this bullshit and I'm about done with forgiving the rest of the human race for being fucking shitty creatures and trying to address my own issues when the issues are created by the way society fucking works.
I'm not a victim but why are people so fu*ing stupid now days? Three times idiots have crashed my trucks within the last year and a half, My house burned To the ground with everything I owned in it, Took the fire department an hour to f***** get here. By then, my motorcycles had burned 2 trucks had burned. The house burned my fifth wheel to, I moved to a hotel. I get ripped off by the people at the hotel, My truck gets stolen, I buy a new truck it breaks within the first month, I fix it. Some fu&&ing idiot runs into the back of me five minutes after I fix it, I fixed it again bedides The body work that his insurance is still trying to f*k me on, I'm driving down the road at night. There's some f***** idiot in the middle road with a trailer with no lights on it. I run right into it growing like fifty, I buy an r v from the auction that says scratch and dent is the only problem Then after I buy it. I do more research on it because it seems more messed up than I thought, And it says it was a roll over at a different auction before the one I bought it from, I have to get the truck towed After hitting the idiots trailer tow truck driver totally screws me over two hundred and fifty bucks to tow it four miles, My insurance co emergency road service can't find a tow truck so I had to get this knucklehead, I take a picture of the receipt to send my insurance to get reimbursed. The next day The water in r v floods with receipt on the floor and got ruined. Then I dropped the f**** phone. That had the picture of the receipt on it and break the screen Because my ex-girlfriend was calling me 50 times in a row while I was trying to push my motorcycle. That just decided not to run that day Which was twenty minutes after I was on a ride and half of the fu**ing plastics blew off all over the road at a high rate of speed 145mph… I could go on all fu**ing day long.. Return to part to autozone. They never credited my card back the money. Now they save. There's no record of it when I know it's in their fu**ing computer.. I call my dentist office to get My receipt about my tooth that was broke in the wreck.. I have to explain to this chick for twenty minutes what I want… Why i'm calling… When i'm done, she says so you want to make an appointment for a cleaning, right? I'm like bitch!!! Nothing I said had anything to do An appointment or cleaning did I say that? She says so you wanna make an appointment right? At that point I threw my new phone into the wall as hard as I could
I know this sounds crazy but lately I feel like I have some kind of evil entity that's been tormenting my life since I was a kid and I can't do anything about it. I try to be selfless, I try to keep fighting the good fight but I end up back to the start its like God enjoys watching me suffer. I dont ask for much I just need one win in life thats it. He'll if I could be happy for 1 full year that would be great.
I wish these were my issues. I was violently raped, causing me to need 3 separate surgeries to recover. My family is dying and being killed, my car was set on fire, and then I lost my job because I had to miss so much work in such a short period of time for my parents and siblings funerals. I don’t intentionally have a victim mentality. However, I do sometimes feel like I’m being cursed.
Every single time I do something, it never happens. Initially it feels like it’s going well, I try hard and put everything in place and yet things never go smooth. I only see failures and it’s happening from my teenage years. I am in my forties soon and yet achieved nothing. I just try and try and try and yet never achieve anything. So fade-up with my life and feels like worthless life.
I lay down my life on studies and at the same time I met the most lovely girl I could imagine. I failed my studies and I might lose my new apartment I'm about to move into since I won't be able to take my student loan. The girl left me a few days ago as we were on a vacation. Now I'm alone on an airport on my way home and my flight is delayed 6 hours, so I can't even get home to grieve. This might not be enough to put on my tin foil hat and blame some superstition, but it doesn't suit right to call this chance.
I never ask why bad things do happen to me, but rather why good things don’t happen to me. Everyone’s life will have bad moments, but what about when life doesn’t have any good ones?
I know it sounds bad to hear, but try to be as positive as possible. Take a step back from the situation and try to reset. Take a nap and assume that good things will happen to you.
I’ve literally got to the point that everytime I show a bit of happiness now that things go wrong just hours later. I was so happy for my first concert but it got taken away from me.
I’m always the positive friend, always helping others! I don’t even hate myself but things will just go wrong for me!! This self hatred don’t even sound right (coming from a psych student). I love myself & doing a lot of great things but nothing stays right for me! I just want a good day or week without it being snatched. Nothing to do with how I feel about myself.
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I think theres a difference between picking up on subtle anxieties and issues for this thinking. But theres also other end of the coin, where the worst possibel that can happen in a situation will happen to you often. Thats me. The hardest part is accepting some people just struggle through life more due to no huge fault of their own
This explains our interpretation of this phenomenon, but not the phenomenon itself: why do bad things keep happening?
Difficult problems can be Gods way of pushing you towards you true purpose or future .
Terrible
Have you heard of Nazar?
All depends of where you were born, there are countries with opportunities and strong economies, and other places in the world where nothing happens. I was born in one of those dark places called Ecuador, where honest hard working people have it hard to succeed, without bribes to the civil servants, or knowing someone in politics… or connections with mafias
I lacked 1 marks and now i have to give my exam again, my friends have left me and now my phone has gotten stolen. I wanna die already fuck this world
I believe in God… not chance.
Watching this with a stress headache
No someone or something is out to get me. I refuse to believe everything is my fault. I can not be to blame for all my mistakes. I can not be to blame when everything goes wrong when I did everything I am supposed to do. That’s not things are supposed to work.
I hate this fucking ugly life every time when i want to have fucking fun or fucking relax i allways have financial problems or whit my familly… 6years i didnt go to fucking vecation and i got to stay in this shitty town… I hate this kind of living sick of this shit
Fuck this life
I thought this video was more about why some people keep on getting victimized by really bad things like rape, abuse, violence, other crimes, wars, natural disasters and so on. Not things like missing a train.
Childhood abuse trauma is at the heart of all the bs going on in my unwanted existence! N while that "lot" laugh at me they get the best of wot they STOLE from me
First and foremost, lets get one thing straight, luck is real. It's not trauma. It's not your perspective. Sometimes you're just dealt a very unlucky hand. But do you think you'll luckier if you just stop trying? Bad luck like poverty charges interest. You're already in the deep end, you stop trying, you'll end up in the abyss.
I always getting bad things in my life, there is no happiness on it. One day, I will travel alone and i dont want to come back again in this world
What are some solutions to change this? ❤
I can't help but laugh at this despite the depression.
I think if this is our experience we should exit life no matter what ppl say about it.
Omg i wish my problems were this benign
Complete nonsese i love myself and I am nice to everyone and still have one bad thing after another happen to me. I even try as hard as possible and just get set back by one thing after another. Makes no sense at all.
Yeah, kinda accepted that even if I try to be positive other people are going to shit on me and I have no control over that, it's to the point where I don't leave the house unless i need to shop, I avoid other people because I can't seem to do anything right or keep up. I work and I get illegally underpaid and leave, or treated like a piece of shit, put up with it and try and then get fired anyway, and to top the whole lot off I am alone all the damn time.
It's hard to leave behind victim mentality and self-hatred when the world shits on you constantly and leaves you a victim and the only reason you can see is you're a shithouse person that nobody likes and has no inherent worth. It's not like I feel like everything is going wrong, it's that *everything is going wrong*, I'm not annoyed by the little things, shit happens and I can't change those, But when I'm consistantly treated badly by my employers, my peers, and nothing ever seems to get better it's really fucking hard to stop being a 'victim' because you literally are a victim of other peoples shitty morals. It's hard to not hate oneself because the only reason it could keepo on happening so constantly is because I'm a terrible person and I deserve nothing.
Does any of this actually hit home, or is this 'victim mentality'? Because i've dealt with over a decade of this bullshit and I'm about done with forgiving the rest of the human race for being fucking shitty creatures and trying to address my own issues when the issues are created by the way society fucking works.
Bad things happen because we hate ourselves… got it.
Oh yeah very cross indeed cross as f*ck!!
I'm not a victim but why are people so fu*ing stupid now days? Three times idiots have crashed my trucks within the last year and a half, My house burned To the ground with everything I owned in it, Took the fire department an hour to f***** get here. By then, my motorcycles had burned 2 trucks had burned. The house burned my fifth wheel to, I moved to a hotel. I get ripped off by the people at the hotel, My truck gets stolen, I buy a new truck it breaks within the first month, I fix it. Some fu&&ing idiot runs into the back of me five minutes after I fix it, I fixed it again bedides The body work that his insurance is still trying to f*k me on, I'm driving down the road at night. There's some f***** idiot in the middle road with a trailer with no lights on it. I run right into it growing like fifty, I buy an r v from the auction that says scratch and dent is the only problem Then after I buy it. I do more research on it because it seems more messed up than I thought, And it says it was a roll over at a different auction before the one I bought it from, I have to get the truck towed After hitting the idiots trailer tow truck driver totally screws me over two hundred and fifty bucks to tow it four miles, My insurance co emergency road service can't find a tow truck so I had to get this knucklehead, I take a picture of the receipt to send my insurance to get reimbursed.
The next day The water in r v floods with receipt on the floor and got ruined. Then I dropped the f**** phone. That had the picture of the receipt on it and break the screen Because my ex-girlfriend was calling me 50 times in a row while I was trying to push my motorcycle. That just decided not to run that day Which was twenty minutes after I was on a ride and half of the fu**ing plastics blew off all over the road at a high rate of speed 145mph… I could go on all fu**ing day long.. Return to part to autozone. They never credited my card back the money. Now they save. There's no record of it when I know it's in their fu**ing computer.. I call my dentist office to get My receipt about my tooth that was broke in the wreck.. I have to explain to this chick for twenty minutes what I want… Why i'm calling… When i'm done, she says so you want to make an appointment for a cleaning, right? I'm like bitch!!! Nothing I said had anything to do An appointment or cleaning did I say that? She says so you wanna make an appointment right? At that point I threw my new phone into the wall as hard as I could
What if.. it’s not average level “bad”… sometimes. It’s not just you inflating things
I know this sounds crazy but lately I feel like I have some kind of evil entity that's been tormenting my life since I was a kid and I can't do anything about it. I try to be selfless, I try to keep fighting the good fight but I end up back to the start its like God enjoys watching me suffer. I dont ask for much I just need one win in life thats it. He'll if I could be happy for 1 full year that would be great.
High school is horrible, I have no friends and everyone bullies me.
Or… here me out: Satan is trying to ruin my life.
wtf you call these problems…
"Guys my parents died when I was 12 It's ok. It's just my attitude. Right? I'm just a victim right?"
I want Alain back !!!
I’m just done. I’ve had enough, I’ve never done anything to anyone and all that ever happens to me is shit.
I wish these were my issues. I was violently raped, causing me to need 3 separate surgeries to recover. My family is dying and being killed, my car was set on fire, and then I lost my job because I had to miss so much work in such a short period of time for my parents and siblings funerals. I don’t intentionally have a victim mentality. However, I do sometimes feel like I’m being cursed.
Every single time I do something, it never happens. Initially it feels like it’s going well, I try hard and put everything in place and yet things never go smooth. I only see failures and it’s happening from my teenage years. I am in my forties soon and yet achieved nothing. I just try and try and try and yet never achieve anything.
So fade-up with my life and feels like worthless life.
Aaaaa aaaaa
I lay down my life on studies and at the same time I met the most lovely girl I could imagine. I failed my studies and I might lose my new apartment I'm about to move into since I won't be able to take my student loan. The girl left me a few days ago as we were on a vacation. Now I'm alone on an airport on my way home and my flight is delayed 6 hours, so I can't even get home to grieve. This might not be enough to put on my tin foil hat and blame some superstition, but it doesn't suit right to call this chance.
Honestly speaking, I didn't get any solutions after watching this video. How to improve our life then…
This my fucking life
I never ask why bad things do happen to me, but rather why good things don’t happen to me. Everyone’s life will have bad moments, but what about when life doesn’t have any good ones?
I know it sounds bad to hear, but try to be as positive as possible. Take a step back from the situation and try to reset. Take a nap and assume that good things will happen to you.
I’ve literally got to the point that everytime I show a bit of happiness now that things go wrong just hours later. I was so happy for my first concert but it got taken away from me.
I’m always the positive friend, always helping others! I don’t even hate myself but things will just go wrong for me!! This self hatred don’t even sound right (coming from a psych student). I love myself & doing a lot of great things but nothing stays right for me! I just want a good day or week without it being snatched. Nothing to do with how I feel about myself.